Am I?

So here's the thing. My high school friends used to say I'm a natural flirt - which is not entirely true, because I don't flirt unless it's with someone whom I won't be seeing ever again. You know what I'm saying? Or with someone I'm really attracted to. Or maybe sometimes I do, as a joke. To conclude, I don't really see myself as a flirt. Maybe friendly.

However, I talked to a friend and asked him casually, 'Do you think I'm a flirt?' I didn't expect it to be yes, even though it could've been it. I was expecting a no, with some decent explanation. But what he said was, 'No, I don't think you're a flirt. You're just aggressive.'

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Am I?

AM I??!! >:(

Hahahaha.. You see what I did there? No? Well..

I'd rather get called flirty than aggressive! I mean, which part of myself is aggressive?? HAH? HAHH?? :p

Seriously though... He said by aggressive he meant that I'm a kind of person who does the approach first. Well he was true about that. But is that count as aggressive? I do approach people first but that is because they are so shy/too quiet I just can't help myself not to talk to them, or get to know them. That's not weird, right? That's not... aggressive. Right? No?

I might be a bit talkative (can be extremely talkative at times), ask people around even though I don't really know them, but I never ever like, ask a guy out on a date, ever. That's called aggressive, right? And what I am is not, right?

Am I being aggressive right now? LOL.

I'm a kick my friend's butt for calling me aggressive.