Sunday, December 18, 2011

Tendency

People have the tendency to get panic when they realize the joy they're experiencing is almost over. It's like when you know your holiday is about to over in a week and you try to squeeze every activities that u can only do on holiday in to that last 7 days.

Or you'll lay lazy on bed as long as you can cos you're going have to work when the holiday is over. Or watch as many movies as you can cos you know you won't have much time to watch movies when the holiday's over.

Sometimes when you know your time with someone/bunch of friends is limited, you -again- tend to want to spend as much time with them. But sometimes, the other party doesn't really, well, how do I put it, know what's going on.

You put so much effort to spend time with them, to talk to them, to have fun with them, to have a quality time with them, but since 'them' is or are going about their own business, and in the end, you end up looking ridiculous.

And you become disappointed. And angry. And sad. Cos you thought they'd be as enthusiastic as you. You thought they'd be as excited and sad to lose you. Maybe they are. They just.. Either don't realise what you realise or they simply don't regard you as important as you regard them.

And that will make you even more pathetic. And looks needy. Sounds demanding. Being non-sense. And other weird stuff.

What can you do when that thing happen?? Easy answer: let it go. If they don't care, why should you care?

Easy answer.

Truth answer: take a deep breath, be sincere, keep it to yourself, keep being nice to them, and just.. Accept it for what it is. If they don't care, it's gonna end soon anyway.. And after that.. You'll move on.

A bit bitter ey? Life is sometimes bitter. I mean when life gives you a lemon, you got to make something out of it. Be it lemonade, lemon squash or lemon tea. Just keep going..
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